She gets a shit deal in society where she either gets called names for initiating or gets to miss out but look like virgin Mary. Just remember that she doesn't want to feel like she has actively initiated anything.
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Had one lovely girl in a movie night lie down under the covers with me for 3 movies straight.i had no idea how to go about initiating anything where I lay completely still.she left disappointed as she clearly had a crush on me. It's also ok if you're not sure of what to do in these scenarios as god knows how much I've been there too and survived. By the sounds of it she wanted more than holding hands and it's totally ok if you're not comfortable with going any further. So she can basically tell herself/her friends that "he came over and one thing led to another.i dunno )". I haven't seen this mentioned but also remember that she doesn't want to seem like the one to initiate because of societal pressure and "slut shaming". If you’re traveling or likely won’t see them again, or not interested in dating them, then just go for it. It makes them want you a bit more if they are all wet and asking for it and you don’t give in and keep touching and having fun but don’t have sex the first time. I’d like to save it, leave something for us both to look forward too.
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Even as a guy Inwomt have sex the first time, even when they are asking for it, especially if I like them. Many times sex is not on the table the first time. You’re both in underwear only at this point. From here you’ll likely get some indication from her if she wants to have sex or not.
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Maybe finger her if it’s obvious she’s is really into it. Rub her under her panties and she will likely get very wet.
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If so, spend extra time here with underwear on and enjoy touching and making out. It should be difficult because of the pants and she may want them off. Progressive: Kiss, making out, touch boob over clothes, touch butt over clothes, go under shirt for boob over bra, go for making out with shirts off, take off bra, lick boobs, (pants off starts to get more serious) see if she is interested in pants off by touching pussy over pants first, then go inside pants but over panties, then under. It’s irrational to think she will suddenly stop and scream get out. You now know she is only interested in making out in that moment. If she isn’t interested, she will remove your hand. If you escalate in order, she’ll let you know where you’ve gone too far and you can recover.įor example: if you kiss her, make out a bit, then move your hand to her boob. If you’re getting vibes she would want a kiss, you should try.ĭepending on how that goes, she may be interested in more.Įscalate progressively until she (or you) is no longer interested. Is it safe to assume that she wants you to escalate to sex if she invites you to watch something as a date or invites you after you have been to a bar?Īnd I find it really hard to get in the ‘mood’ and want to have sex if I am initiating (like I have to force myself to?) - how do you fix this? This was already really late like 2am and I was fucking tired so it was hard to jump in, I only wish I’d done it way sooner like half an hour into watching.Īfter I kissed we escalated to sex but it was quite lacklustre and being really exhausted I could perform well so it ended up being a bit shit. Then eventually I just forced myself to jump in for the kiss. We ended up watching for way too long, just sitting there. I knew it wasn’t just to watch something, but I kept hesitating and was afraid of escalating as I didn’t want to be ‘pushy’ or seem like I only wanted sex. One of the more recent times, she came over to watch something and we sat on the couch and were fairly cosy, she was sitting close to me and I had my arm around her. I absolutely relate to this and have fucked up many times.
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